15 Best Essential Oils For Female Stimulation

Whether you are looking for the best essential oil for lasting longer in bed or the best aphrodisiac essential oils, this list is for you. Here are the top 15 best essential oils for sex:

1. Rose essential oil
2. Vanilla essential oil
3. Jasmine essential oil
4. Cinnamon essential oil
5. Ylang ylang essential oil
6. Nutmeg essential oil
7. Sandalwood essential oil
8. Patchouli essential oil
9. Black pepper essential oil
10. Neroli essential oil
11. Sage essential oil
12. Sweet orange essential oil
13. Grapefruit essential oil
14. Cardamon essential oil
15. Fennel essential oil

It’s important to remember that all essential oils should be used with precaution, especially in the case of pregnancy and allergies. When using any type of essential oil, always test for skin sensitivity. It is recommended that you test any serum or oil on your elbow before using it elsewhere on your skin. If you notice any reaction from the patch test, do not use the oil again. In addition, we recommend always diluting these essential oils with a carrier oil.

For more about natural ways to increase libido, we recommend reading our article where we discover how to increase your sex drive naturally: the best aphrodisiac herbs^[1].

To start of off our list of the best essential oils for female stimulation, there is no doubt that rose is a popular flower associated with love, romance and eroticism. The aroma of rose essential oil is delicate and exerts a powerful seductive effect on everyone who breathes it in. Did you know that women in Ancient Egypt used to take baths in milk, honey and rose petals? Not only is rose essential oil great to ‘set the mood’, but when applied to skin it also has great moisturizing and anti-inflammatory properties.

Even though rose essential oil is safe to use undiluted, because it can be quite expensive and strong, we recommend always diluting it with another type of oil.

How to use rose essential oil for sex

When it comes to using this essential oil in the bedroom, we recommend using a blend of 1-2 drops of rose essential oil and 2 drops of sandalwood for a sensual massage (avoid eyes and mouth). Another way you can use rose essential oil for libido is to add it to a diffuser, mixed with 2 drops of bergamot essential oil.

Lastly, you can also blend into a perfume with another sweet smelling scent to carry it around with you.

For more we recommend reading our article about the scents and smells that arouse women the most.

Not only does vanilla carry a magically sweet smell, but this aroma also manages to awaken sexual desire and increase libido. Did you know that vanilla is actually one of the most potent aphrodisiacs? Vanilla essential oil is sweet and warm but penetrating at the same time, making it an ideal oil to aromatize a room and create a sensual environment. In addition, vanilla contains strong sedative and anti-inflammatory properties.

The first thing you should know, however, is that ‘pure’ vanilla essential oil doesn’t actually exist. Instead, what you can find is vanilla oleoresin essential oil (one of the most concentrated forms of vanilla on the market).

How to use vanilla oleoresin oil for libido

We recommend diluting this vanilla essential oil with another carrier oil like jojoba oil. From there, you can spray this oil onto your sheets, clothes and bedding to up general libido sensations in the bedroom. In addition, try lighting a vanilla candle to set the mood and release some pheromones into the air.

Did you know that you can also use vanilla in a tea infusion to increase libido? For more, we recommend reading our article where we list the 5 most effective herbal teas to enhance your sexual libido.

Next on our list of the best essential oils for bedroom is jasmine. The jasmine plant of Arab origin offers a very pleasant aroma, intense with a sweet touch that is able to accentuate sensuality and eroticism within the most intimate moments. Jasmine has been used for decades as a powerful perfume and natural aphrodisiac. In fact, in India, women have applied this scent to their hair for years to attract men and seduce their lovers. Not only is jasmine popular for being an incredibly aphrodisiac, but it also carries antidepressant, antispasmodic and sedative properties^[2].

How to use jasmine essential oil for sex

Mix jasmine oil and wild orange into a diffuser to create a sensually driven environment. You can also dab some jasmine oil into your hands, rub and inhale lightly to increase libido. In addition, you can apply jasmine essential oil topically for a sensual and erotic massage (avoid intimate areas, mouth and eyes).

For more about sensual massages, we recommend reading our article where we discuss how to caress a woman.

Not only does cinnamon offer a delicious flavor and aroma, but it is also a great essential oil for sex. This aphrodisiac essential oil is ideal in complementing a night of exciting and stimulating sensations. Its sweet aroma is full of nuances that promotes relaxation and an increase of sexual desire.

How to use cinnamon essential oil for sex

Add some spice to your sex life with cinnamon by mixing a few drops with bergamot essential oil or ylang-ylang essential oil and placing in a diffuser. In addition, you can also make a mint and cinnamon infusion tea to enhance stimulation.

If you are wanting to apply cinnamon essential oil to the skin, you must make sure that you mix it with a carrier oil such as sweet almond, jojoba oil or avocado oil. Essential oils, if not diluted in a carrier oil, can cause burns or side effects.

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Although it is not as well-known as the other essential oils for female stimulation, ylang ylang essential oil is another strong aphrodisiac essential oil. This oil of oriental origin offers a very exotic and penetrating aroma. Its relaxing effects manage to reduce tension and promote attraction and seduction. In addition to being an ideal essential oil to improve libido, this essential oil also aids in treating stress, depression and anxiety.

Ylang ylang essential oil for sex

Mix two drops of ylang ylang essential oil with 1 tablespoon of sweet almond oil for a sensual massage. Mix into a diffuser with another essential oil of choice.

Diffuse these following essential oils for sex and reek the rewards!

• Nutmeg essential oil: this spicy essential oil promotes circulation when used as a massage oil, making sure that your blood flows to all of those intimate parts of the body.
• Sandalwood essential oil: this incredibly calming essential oil can be rubbed into the hands and breathed in for ultimate relaxation and desire.
• Patchouli essential oil: is not only a great aphrodisiac essential oil, but works as an astringent and sedative. Aiding in releasing both serotonin and dopamine, patchouli essential oil promotes sex drive and reduces sexual anxiety.
• Black pepper essential oil: inhale black pepper essential oil directly from the bottle or place into a diffuser to promote relaxation and enjoy freer sex with this spicy aroma.
• Neroli essential oil: inhale this oil or mix into a diffuser to increase libido and minimize symptoms of menopause which can negatively affect sex drive.
• Sage essential oil: this essential oil for sex is known for its incredibly strong stimulant properties.
• Sweet orange essential oil: this oil is known for its calming properties which also aid in relaxing anal muscles and improving mood and energy. Diffuse this citrus oil for a quick pick-me-up!
• Grapefruit essential oil: feeling stressed because of a lack of libido? Infuse grapefruit essential oil with lavender or ylang-yalng and feel your sexual desire increase.
• Cardamon essential oil:other than its function as a natural aphrodisiac, cardamom also carries a warming effect, helping to heat up the body.
• Fennel essential oil: are you suffering from period pains or a low libido? If so, fennel essential oil is for you!

Do you suffer from vaginal dryness and are looking for a natural lubricant? If so, make yourself a natural DIY lubricant with ghee or organic coconut oil and these essential oils:

• Rose essential oil
• Chamomile essential oil
• Lavender essential oil
• Sandalwood essential oil
• Ylang ylang essential oil

As we’ve already mentioned before, make sure to always use a carrier oil with your essential oil and perform a skin test before placing these oils anywhere near your vagina. In addition, when using natural oils like avocado oil, coconut oil or olive oil, we recommend keeping them away from condoms as it can cause breakage.

For more, we recommend reading our article where we discuss how to make homemade lubricant step by step.

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