Tantra is a type of yoga that focuses on sex. It is ideal for those who are on a spiritual quest, who see sex as something beyond carnal desire, a tool for growth both as an individual and as a couple. One of the keys of this practice is to control sexual energy, leading to the control of ejaculation during sessions, but this step can be very difficult for those new to the discipline. In OneHowTo.com we give you some tips so you know how to avoid ejaculation during tantric sex.
Firstly give yourself the time needed to evolve, in the first encounters it may be difficult to contain ejaculation but with practice you will master your sexual energy enduring for tens of minutes, even several hours, sessions of tantric sex without ejaculating.
At the beginning we recommend sexual positions where you control movements, thus it is much easier to stop when you feel you are about to ejaculate and make way for a new round of caresses and kisses.
When entering, at least initially, opt for static type penetration (i.e. no movement) and just feel the warmth and arousal between you. You can gradually incorporate movement, always slowly so to encourage meditation and energy flow.
Tantra practitioners often apply a technique to stop ejaculation, by pressing the perineum between the testicles and anus; this slows the momentum and you can do it as many times as you want to prolong the encounter.
Breathing is also a good tool, focusing on it helps keep the pace leisurely and controls the sexual energy.
If after stopping ejaculating in several occasions you feel you can not stand it any longer then give yourself the pleasure of enjoying this wonderful sexual energy that will run through your body and that of your partner, make the most of this climax after a long session of caresses and kisses.
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- At the start practising tantric sex can be a challenge, so it is advisable to seek guidance either in books, consultations or meditation classes.
- Enjoy the moment and the sexual energy contained and learn and value the importance of control.