How to deal with a Moody Girlfriend
In the beginning of a relationship usually everything appears to be a bed of roses with rainbows on top. But as time passes and you get to know the person on a more personal level the darker shades comes into views. They may appear as crankiness, moodiness, irritation etc. But you can’t just leave a person just because he/she is comfortable enough to reveal his/her darker side.
Men handling a moody girlfriend often becomes one hell of a job. That’s because a woman’s emotion can change very quickly. At one moment you may be feeling as if her whole world is centered around you while the other moment she may be turning your world upside down because you weren’t paying attention to her question. But if you follow a few tips then you can soon calm down her mood and be back being the center of her world without losing your cool. In this article we will tell you how to deal with a Moody Girlfriend.
Chocolates and Flowers
No girl can say no to chocolate. Even if she is a fitness freak your chocolate will always be something special for her. Besides, eating chocolate will release her happy hormones and you can see her cooling down instantly. Adding a few flowers with the chocolate will be the cherry on top. Who knows, she may even shower you with kisses.
If she is unhappy, then there is nothing better than a good big gentle hug. If she is also angry then she may try to get away from your grip. But just hold her close to your heart and tell her that you will always love her. She will melt in your arms in minutes.
Bear with her if it’s the PMS Phase
PMS can turn the gentlest and most calm girl into an irritating emotional mess. So, if it is her PMS phase then bear with her a bit. At such time it’s best not to lose your cool. Also, do not say anything which she might misconstruct and misunderstand.
Give her Space
Sometimes a girl’s moodiness occurs just because she is not getting much space. It usually happens when a partner nags constantly. To deal with your girfriend if she's moody because she feels overwhelmed, let her take her own time. Give her space and do not hassle her. She will take her own sweet time and will cool off eventually.
Sometimes what a girl needs is just reassurance from her boyfriend. Just reassure her by telling her how much you love her and tell her that you will always be with her no matter what. Sometimes a few soothing words are all she needs to bring back her smile.
Don’t lose your calm
This is the most important point. Do not lose your calm. Do not answer her crankiness with your frustration. Instead, talk to her in a gentle soothing voice. If you can’t reply with cool then just keep quiet instead of shouting and hurling words at each other. When she cools down, talk to her about her moodiness. She will certainly listen as she will be in a good mood and will make an effort to not do so next time.
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