Anal sex is one of the practices that inspires curiosity and desire in men. Little by little, society has been breaking taboos and their fear of pain to live the most of these pleasant encounters, but the fear that your partner doesn't know how to do it properly puts many people off. Before penetration it is important that the anus has been previously cleaned and stimulated to ensure enjoyment, so in oneHOWTO we have some tips for you to discover how to prepare the anus for anal sex step by step and give your partner maximum pleasure.
Prepare the anus' hygiene
First of all hygiene is very important, you don't want any unpleasant surprises during your first time having anal sex, which is why cleaning the area is highly important.
If you really want to avoid any nasty experiences, the first thing you should take into account is what you previously eat. Having plenty of fiber the day before anal sex will make it much easier to prepare your anus for the enema. Take fruit juices, wholemeal products such as oats or rice and yogurt.
It is certainly a good idea to use a water enema before anal sex. You should not be embarrassed, as this is a pretty easy procedure if you have the instructions and follow them perfectly.
If you don't want to cleanse your anus with an enema before sex, another option is to deep cleanse the area with mild soap and puts your finger a little into the rectum. Many couples enjoy doing this together as it can be exciting and delicious foreplay.
Foreplay
Just like you wouldn't penetrate your partner vaginally without arousing her first and getting her ready for intercourse, anal intercourse requires prior preparation, it's very important not to overlook if the goal is that you both enjoy it and that she does not feel pain during anal sex.
It is important that before anal penetration the sphincter relaxes to receive the penis without pain. The anus does not dilate as the vagina, so the stimulation should be intense. A good way to start is with gentle massage and caress the outside of the anus, without introducing the finger. In parallel using your other hand also stimulate the clitoris and feel how wet she gets when turned on, you can use this natural lubricant to your advantage. Use a vibrator dildo to stimulate the clitoris, as it will be highly effective on getting the girl aroused. In the case of male anal sex, then stimulating the penis is best done orally while manually stimulating the anus.
And one of the best ways to prepare the anus for penetration is through oral stimulation in both cases. You can black kiss or even do some rimming on your partner and give her maximum enjoyment. Certain anal sex toys can also help for first-timers, such as anal beads, that can help both expand and excite the anal area or a butt plug, which can also help dilate the area while starting to enhance pleasure in the zone before penetration.
Do not forget her other erogenous zones such as breasts, neck or ear. Use foreplay to show your girl that you to turn her on so much, let her relax before anal sex to prepare for a painless and very pleasant penetration.
Lubrication
Precisely with the moisture from your girl's vagina, and since the anus does not lubricate itself, you can wet your finger with saliva or with her own wetness and insert it slowly and gradually into her anus. Do it very gently and several times, this helps the rectum dilate and relax, this foreplay can also be very enjoyable for both.
If you prefer, you can also use lube. Choosing the right lube is highly important, as oil based lubricants are not recommended for women or when wearing a condom, as the oil can come into contact with the vagina and transmit anal bacteria. On the other hand using an oil based lube with a condom can degrade the fabric. Therefore, it is recommended to use water based lubricants instead.
Positions
Once you have prepared the anus for anal sex, it's important to find a position in which you both feel comfortable. The person whom is receiving should take into account that it is best to push the sphincter instead of contracting it, no matter the position you choose. Take a look at the best positions for anal sex and go for the one that suits you best.
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