How To Re-Attract Your Ex

By Ameera Mills. Updated: July 3, 2018
How To Re-Attract Your Ex

Breaking up with someone when you still feel something for that person can be painful and difficult. However, sometimes, even if it seems that everything has ended between you and them, there is a still chance you can win them back. Through a series of strategies, there are possible ways in which to make that person find you attractive again, and hopefully even give you another chance.

In this oneHOWTO article we will discuss different ways and wonders of how to re-attract your ex.

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End all contact with your ex

If you want to be more attractive to your ex, the first step to take is to give that person space and cut off all contact with them. Here are some tips on how to do this:

  • Try to cut off all contact with your ex: calls, messages, meetings and social network, for at least a month.
  • If you have your ex on your social networks, you should avoid looking at their profile as it might hurt you. We suggest you block or delete your ex from your contacts on social networks, at least for now.
  • In the case that you don’t want to delete them off social media, whatever you do, do not post about your feelings online. The less they knows about you, the more they will miss you.
  • Take this time for yourself, heal your sentimental wounds and cool any negative feelings.

We recommend that if you are currently still meeting up with your ex-partner, you should stop doing so immediately. You need to differentiate between sex and love with your ex. If you are having sex, they might only be able to look at you in this sexual way, rather than in a sentimental one.

Reflect on your relationship with you ex

During this period that you are not in contact with you ex, we suggest taking time to reflect and look back on the relationship that you had. Make a list of what was good and what wasn’t, what could you do differently? what could your ex do differently? This time is for you to clear your mind, strategically reassess what went wrong in the relationship and if there is any chance of fixing it.

How To Re-Attract Your Ex - Reflect on your relationship with you ex

Pamper both your image and mind

In order to attract your ex again, you should take advantage of this period of reflection and take care of yourself. Think of the time when you eventually see your ex again, you want them to see you at your best, both physically and mentally. Here are some tips:

  • Maintain physical fitness by playing sports and eating healthier.
  • Try to meet new people who appreciate you for who you are and make friends.
  • Take advantage and do those things that maybe you didn’t have time to do during your relationship.
  • Focus on being happy, join a yoga, painting or boxing class, try new things!

Don’t speak badly about your ex

It is likely that after a painful breakup you may feel resentful towards your ex, it’s normal. However, we advise not doing this in the case of trying to get them back. If they find out that you have been saying bad things about them, it is likely that this news will deter them from going back to a relationship with you.

How To Re-Attract Your Ex - Don’t speak badly about your ex

How to re-establish contact with that person

When your recovery time has passed and if you still feel you want to re-attract your ex, the next step is to try and make contact with them again. Try to contact her or him either through social networks or by sending a message through means such as skype or whatsapp.

In this first ‘‘contact step’’ we suggest avoiding talking about being together again or about things you miss about the relationship. We recommend introducing this new meetup with a more lighthearted catch-up, speak about the new things in your life and how they are, try to make this an enjoyable experience rather than a pressured one.

Ask to meet-up

Once the two of you have shared a few conversations and if your ex partner is still happily replying, we suggest taking the next step to re-attracting your ex. Try to meet them in person. We suggest casually asking them on a date .

If your ex rejects this invitation, give it time. It is possible that it is too soon for them and they would rather not meet yet, see how it goes, carry on talking to them and if conversation continues, try again later.

How To Re-Attract Your Ex - Ask to meet-up

Try to seduce your ex again

Now comes the pinnacle moment of having to seduce them. To do this, do things that you know your ex liked about you. Meet them again, speak about things you had in common, put on their favorite perfume, wear that outfit they loved and remind them about the good things that were present in your relationship.

We recommend always taking into consideration why your relationship didn’t work in the first place. Ask yourself if choosing to re-attract your ex is the best thing for both of you before doing so. And if you come to the realization that it isn’t, we suggest channeling your energy elsewhere.

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