The butt plug is one of the best options for those who are curious to experiment with anal sex and dare not, and also for those who enjoy it and don't lose a chance to play and be stimulated alone or in company. If you have no idea how to use this sex toy, at oneHOWTO we give you all the tips to guide you on this small, but enjoyable, ally.
Learn about the use of a butt plug. The plug is a great sex toy for beginners in anal sex. It is much smaller and discreet than an anal dildo and always has a cap or a ring at the end of the plug (like the one in the picture) so that you or your partner can manipulate it comfortably, and also avoid getting the toy trapped in the anus. You will get pleasure through the plug as it stimulates the anus, helping it dilate better and in an easier way. This is thanks to its shape, which is created to fit anal sphincters better.
Its thin tip allows a gentle penetration, slowly dilating the anus, while as you penetrate the plug widens for more pleasure. These are usually small toys, with a diameter of up to 4 centimeters, but you may also find longer and thicker ones
It is designed to combine with clitoral or penile stimulation. The butt plug can be used in masturbation alone or to play with your partner. It is suitable for men and women who enjoy anal stimulation
Prepare before using it. Before you use it, you should always wash it with warm water and mild soap. Start by stimulating the anus to make yourself relaxed and excited. Remember that no matter the level of desire you experience, the anus is not lubricated. For this reason, it is important to use a water-based lubricant so that it is more enjoyable
Lubricate the butt plug. You must be relaxed to enjoy this sex toy. If you have never had experience with anal sex before, it's better to use it with your partner. You'll enjoy it much more in this way. Once lubricated, first insert the tip and then the rest of the plug slowly, stimulating other erogenous zones at the same time to increase pleasure.
Make sure you choose the right type of lubricant depending on the material of your butt plug:
- Vinyl butt plugs: These are the most versatile type, as they can be used with any type of lubricant on the market.
- Rubber & latex plugs: When using this type of toy, we advise you to use a lubricant that is water base, as any other could destroy the plug on the long run.
- Silicone plugs: These can have both water and oil based lubes, but not silicone ones.
Gentle play. You or your partner should perform gentle movements within the anus to enjoy the wonders of this sex toy. Some plugs come with an incorporated vibrator to provide greater satisfaction, like that you can see in the picture.
This is not the only design in which you can find butt plugs. There are also ones with circles which look like anal beads and provide great pleasure. Always prefer silicone or jelly toys (gelatine), which are much softer and easier to maintain.
How to reach orgasm with anal plugs. Both men and women can enjoy the use of butt plugs.
In the case of men, when combined with oral sex, as the man gets more and more excited, the sphincter muscles will start to work, thus moving the plug on its own and producing further pleasure.
In the case of women, it is best to use it as double penetration, i.e while being penetrated vaginally too, as the plug exerts more friction on the vaginal wall, this creating more friction with the penis too and creating more pleasure.
Clean the butt plug properly. Once you finish using the butt plug, remember to wash it under warm water until there is no remnants, use mild soap again and leave it to dry naturally.
When it's completely dry, keep it in a case to protect it better. If you don't have it, we advise you to use a ziplock and keep it in a dry and dark storage place. It's advisable not to share this toy with casual partners to avoid STDs. If you do so, use a condom.
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- The anus only has pain sensors for the first two to three inches and no further than that. However, if you feel too much pain, we advise you to slowly take it out, as a bad experience will only dissuade you from using it again and experiencing the pleasure this sex toy can give you.