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How to orgasm with anal sex

Mary Smith
By Mary Smith. Updated: January 20, 2017
How to orgasm with anal sex

For many couples anal sex is taboo, something that is not spoken about and much less practiced. But in the world of intimacy, exploration is the key to pleasure and there are many who get tremendous satisfaction from anal penetration, which is just another form of enjoyment. Well practiced, fear of pain quickly disappears to give way to enjoyment, so at OneHowTo.com we explain how to have an orgasm with anal sex and experience a climax like never before.

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Steps to follow:

1

Anal sex is not something you can practice in five minutes, it is not quick sex. On the contrary, it requires time, patience and dedication to make penetration completely enjoyable and whoever is penetrated reach an intense orgasm, so the first thing is to have time to devote yourself completely to the anus unhurried.

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Stimulate the anus of your partner without leaving aside the vagina, clitoris, breasts and all female erogenous zones. The idea is that your girl will feel completely energised and ready to be penetrated and enjoy it. With stimulation, the anus will dilate and be ready to be penetrated.

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Once the anus is dilated, you will then be able to help your partner out with some lubricant so that the penis slides in. This is important as the anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina. You should know that to make anal sex painless you should start to penetrate delicately with the end of the penis, if you try to insert the penis in one motion they will experience pain and discomfort. Use an anal plug if you want to prepare the anus slowly for penetration.

4

When you penetrate with the tip of you penis, you should leave it there for a few seconds motionless, waiting for the initial tension to pass and they can relax. Kiss their neck, caressing their clitoris or breasts, saying things in their ear, and bringing enjoyment.

How to orgasm with anal sex - Step 4
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Once she is relaxed, you can begin to gently penetrate, gradually introducing the penis while both enjoy the sensations that this type of penetration generates. This it will be something different and delicious, while the man receives a big boost from penetrating a narrower gap than usual.

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Patience is essential, even if in pornos you see these women being penetrated anally with a similar intensity to vaginal sex, the reality is different. It should go slowly, slowly generating enormous pleasure, for it is rewarding to feel like the penis moves increasingly, exploring unknown parts.

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When both are ready they can increase the speed a little. Always remember that you should stimulate key points on the body, the proximity of this kind of penetration means that you can do this, and is the reason it is very exciting.

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The position they choose is key so she reaches orgasm with anal sex, so check out our article about the best positions to achieve and ensure the enjoyment of both.

9

Do not hesitate to make use of sex toys like vibrators or dildos to increase pleasure. While she is penetrated anally, masturbation can be used to stimulate the clitoris and even to penetrate vaginally. This will provide a great pleasure which will surely end in a very intense orgasm for both.

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Enjoy your sexuality fully and live the delightful experience of anal sex, a different form of pleasure but very stimulating.

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JohnKay
My wife and I initially trued this yrs ago and we both enjoy it. Her most common phrase after she orgasms is omg did you see me cum? For us it works best with her laying on top on her back with me on my back with her legs by my head. She is then able to control everything and I can helmsupport her lower body with my body and arms.
The less she tenses her legs/lower body the better. I then can stimulate her add more
Lubrication etc. slow at first then she gets very aggressive which is what she means woth the did you see me comment. She REALLY enjoys it and probably more than I do. The real benefit for me is with vaginal intercourse I think I am too long for her so in missionary and other positions sje pushes back with legs or arms but length and girth via anal dont create an issue which seems counter intuitive but it is what it is. We have been married 14 yrs and together 16 yrs and we still have anal sex 2-3 times per week. To be honest I was surprised to find that she likes it a bit more than I do. She is in great shape so it is often very vigorous. She is 5'8
A size 4 or 6 depending on brand of clothes I am 6'4 230 lbs except during holidays where I'll balloon to 240 :) any good article I think the big mistake guys make is they don't have patience- slow down be gentle and it will benreally good.
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