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How to Masturbate for the First Time - Boys

How to Masturbate for the First Time - Boys

Masturbation is a natural way to pleasure yourself and explore some of your deepest fantasies. It is normal during adolescence for both boys and girls to start getting to know their bodies and arousing themselves with different stimuli. It is at this time when masturbation comes to mind as the best way to find pleasure. But many boys wonder how to masturbate for the first time, so at oneHOWTO we give you some good advice to help you learn everything you need to know about this topic with pictures.

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Steps to follow:
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The first thing you need to know is that masturbation is completely natural. It is not harmful or hurtful in any way. You are not violating any moral or ethical rule, nor is there any problem with exploring your body and seeking to please yourself. Masturbating will allow you to achieve the following benefits:

  • It allows you to get to know your body better: Masturbating is a good way to discover what feels pleasurable for you, so that when you come to have sex for the first time, you have some idea of what you like.
  • It reduces stress: when we masturbate, the pleasure we receive during the process and the final ecstasy we experience during orgasm allows us to reduce stress and anxiety levels.
  • It helps control ejaculation: Getting to know your body will allow you to know when you are going to ejaculate and, therefore, will reduce the chances of premature ejaculation while having sex with your partner.

In this oneHOWTO article we tell you more about the benefits of masturbation that will help change your perspective on the subject and feel more comfortable when masturbating.

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The first step to masturbate for boys the first time, is to choose a quiet place for your first time masturbating. The ideal thing is to be calm, without feeling nervous or scared that someone will find you. A good place is your room or your bathroom, at a time of day when you know that no one can interrupt you.

In any case, we advise you to wash your hands before starting. Why? If you have been out and about during the rest of the day and have been in contact with other people, your hands will be full of bacteria and dirt, so we don't want to touch our privates with dirty hands, do we? Once you have washed them, you can relax and start to masturbate for the first time.

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There are all sorts of things that you can do to arouse yourself and make your penis become erect. Many guys opt for pornographic photos or videos, whilst others prefer to use their imagination. Whatever the case, focus on what will generate enough excitement to give you a good erection. While thinking of or looking at these images you can start stroking your penis with either hand. This will help to enhance the sensitivity in your penis so you enjoy masturbating more.

In this picture you can see how a penis changes from normal state to erect.

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Once your penis is hard and larger than its usual size, you can begin to masturbate. With the hand you use most often, grasp the shaft of your penis. Hold it firmly but not too tightly, you should not feel discomfort or pain. Close your hand to completely hold your penis.

Now, you can start stimulation. Friction is what generates all the pleasure you experience in sex, and this is what you will create with your hand. Move your hand up and down the shaft of your penis, starting gently and then speeding up as you become more aroused and your penis starts to secrete a clear liquid (a natural lubricant).

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The more focused you are on what arouses you while you masturbate for the first time, the easier it will be to ejaculate. The idea is to experiment and find out which is the speed that words best for you. You can gently stroke your glans (the head of your penis) and then return to stimulating the shaft with your hand. Just before you ejaculate, you will feel your whole body relax. You'll notice something rising up inside your penis, and that's the moment when you need to grab a piece of paper, a towel, etc., to catch the semen as you ejaculate in order to not make a mess everywhere.

If you are not releasing any liquid when you have an orgasm, don't worry. This is normal. Some boys don't ejaculate within the first years of masturbating. Most boys only begin to ejaculate between the ages of 12 and 15. It will come with time.

How to Masturbate for the First Time - Boys - Step 5
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Although the technique is always the same, there are many ways to masturbate. For example, you may want to use a lubricant to make your penis more slippery. As you explore and find one that gives you the most pleasure, the important thing is to not be afraid. To help with this we've left some tips in this article to make masturbation more enjoyable and help you have a great time.

Your whole body will relax right before you ejaculate, you will notice how something is advancing though your internal penile conduct, this is a good time to get hold of a piece of paper, a towel, etc; so you can ejaculate on it and not stain your sheets or bedroom.

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Tom
Hello when i try to mastrubate the skin sticks to my penis and it hurts
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Joe
I did all the steps but absolutely nothing is happening
OneHowTo Editor
Hi Joe,

It is possible you are not yet ready. You shouldn't rush it, simply take your time and let it happen naturally. It may be difficult to be patient, but it is an important part of your development.
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Joe
I’m doing all the steps but nothings happening
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Sabin
Why when I start to masturbate my body gets tingly and I have to stop?
I restart but it happens every time. I'm 11

OneHowTo Editor
Hi Sabin,

This tingly feeling is natural and it is the reason why people enjoy it. Don't rush yourself. Just know that it is natural and not something to worry about. Take your time and it will happen naturally.
Phillip
It’s the same with me bro
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anonymous
thanks a lot. :) I turned 13 a couple months ago and I wanted to ask if its normal that my cum is clear and not white but it is sticky and tastes sour. also after I cum should I continue?
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Noah
What if your skin does not role all the way back
OneHowTo Editor
Hi Noah,

If your doesn't roll all the way back, you could still be developing. It is also possible you have a tight foreskin, something which doesn't happen to everyone, but which is relatively common. If you feel pain and see redness/damaged skin on the foreskin, then you should speak to a doctor, just in case. It is both relatively common and highly treatable, so there shouldn't be anything to worry about in the long run.
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Bobi
First time it worked great but the next time it didn't work (the next day) after pls reply
qqq
you are just recovering, your body is still making semen for the next round. Next time try taking 2 days break between each time you wank off.....
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Lucas
Hi,I can't cum I don't know why when clear urine comes out when I'm trying to cum after the white urine stops my dick goes small again
OneHowTo Editor
Hi Lucas,

This clear liquid is likely pre-ejaculate. It is released before semen, but you might not be quite ready to ejaculate fully. It's important to know this isn't a bad thing. Take your time and don't force it, it will happen eventually.
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Lucas
Hi,ummm I'm trying to masturbate for the first time it hurts a lil and I get alot of clear liquid comming out then my Penis goes normal again what's happening?
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Justin
I'm 13 and can not film a lot many only a fey drops how do I cum normaly?
OneHowTo Editor
Hi Justin,

You are likely just entering the stage where you will be developing sexually. The best thing you can do is take your time, know that it will happen eventually and to not feel anxiety about it. Rushing it might only cause frustration, but being relaxed will help.
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Avery
Is it al right if I masterbat useing body wash like is it good to use as luber.
OneHowTo Editor
Hi Avery,

It won't work the same and it will make a thick lather if not used with water. It's generally messy and it can be irritating depending on the ingredient. Can help in the shower, but probably not to use outside of it and certainly not to be used with another person.
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Jaxson
Hi I have done all the steps right but when I went faster it started to hurt why?
OneHowTo Editor
Hi,

If you do it too long or too hard, it will hurt due to friction. If you start to feel pain, stop. Go slow and let it work naturally.
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Dante laforest
Am i gay?
I cant cum right
My cock doesnt get hard😢😢😢😢
OneHowTo Editor
Hi Dante,

Your sexuality shouldn't be a barrier to attaining an erection. You may simply not be ready. However, speak to a doctor if you are unsure.
Human
Diffrent people will get erections at diffrent ages it takes time and being gay wouldn’t change anything.
Avery
I am also gay and a bottom.
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Max
Even though I don't ejaculate when I get orgasm, still it feels SOO good. Thank you so much, this really helped me! 👍👍
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Noah
Dude you helped me out so much you helped me cum for the very first Time I kept trying ever since I was 13 and since I have found this as a 15 who has never cummed I thank you from the bottom of my heart if you have Any socials I would gladly follow you
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Anonymous
I am wondering why when I start masterbating that I get a tingling feeling in my body. I stop and then I start again. I keep going until I get to that point. I try to keep going but my body won’t let me.
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Max
Everything is great and all, but how can i get orgasm faster? Because it takes me like 30 minutes to get it
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Max
Amazing, it feels great. But how can i get orgasm faster , cause getting orgasm takes me like 30 min
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jack
so im 13, ngl im kinda scared to do it. Is there anything else i should know?
OneHowTo Editor
Hi Jack,

The most important thing to remember is that it is normal and something you need to discover for yourself. There is no shame in it and if you have any practical worries, you can talk to a trusted adult.
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Lincoln
Can you masterbate every day or is it spread apart? and im 11
OneHowTo Editor
Hi Lincoln,

There are no physical health risks for you to do it every day. As long as it is enjoyable and you feel OK with it, it should be fine.
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