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How to Masturbate for the First Time - Boys

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Masturbation is a natural way to pleasure yourself and explore some of your deepest fantasies. It is normal during adolescence for both boys and girls to start getting to know their bodies and arousing themselves with different stimuli. It is at this time when masturbation comes to mind as the best way to find pleasure. But many boys wonder how to masturbate for the first time, so at we give you some good advice to help you learn everything you need to know about this topic.

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The first thing you need to know is that masturbation is completely natural. It is not harmful or hurtful in any way. You are not violating any moral or ethical rule, nor is there any problem with exploring your body and seeking to please yourself. Masturbating is a good way to discover what feels pleasurable for you, so that when you come to have sex for the first time, you have some idea of what you like.


The first step to masturbate for the first time is to choose a quiet place for your first time masturbating. The ideal thing is to be calm, without feeling nervous or scared that someone will find you. A good place is your room or your bathroom, at a time of day when you know that no one can interrupt you.


There are all sorts of things that you can do to arouse yourself and make your penis become erect. Many guys opt for pornographic photos or videos, whilst others prefer to use their imagination. Whatever the case, focus on what will generate enough excitement to give you a good erection. While thinking of or looking at these images you can start stroking your penis with either hand. This will help to enhance the sensitivity in your penis so you enjoy masturbating more.

In this picture you can see how a penis changes from normal state to erect.


Once your penis is hard and larger than its usual size, you can begin to masturbate. With the hand you use most often, grasp the shaft of your penis. Hold it firmly but not too tightly, you should not feel discomfort or pain. Close your hand to completely hold your penis.


Now you can begin to stimulate it. Friction is what generates all the pleasure you experience in sex, and this is what you will create with your hand. Move your hand up and down the shaft of your penis, starting gently and then speeding up as you become more aroused and your penis starts to secrete a clear liquid (a natural lubricant).


The more focused you are on what arouses you, the easier it will be to ejaculate. The idea is to experiment and find out which is the speed that words best for you. You can gently stroke your glans (the head of your penis) and then return to stimulating the shaft with your hand. Just before you ejaculate, you will feel your whole body relax. You'll notice something rising up inside your penis, and that's the moment when you need to grab a piece of paper, a towel, etc., to catch the semen as you ejaculate in order to not make a mess everywhere.

If you are not releasing any liquid when you have an orgasm, don't worry. This is normal. Some boys don't ejaculate within the first years of masturbating. Most boys only begin to ejaculate between the ages of 12 and 15. It will come with time.


Although the technique is always the same, there are many ways to masturbate. For example, you may want to use a lubricant to make your penis more slippery. As you explore and find one that gives you the most pleasure, the important thing is to not be afraid. To help with this we've left some tips in this article to make masturbation more enjoyable and help you have a great time.

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Hi i'm 11. What do i do if im afraid to masturbate?
OneHowTo Editor
There is no rush, forget abut peer pressure and take your time to learn about your body. You are very young and have plenty of time.
ok thanks :)
Whenever I (14) ejaculate I just let the semen shoot out onto my body, then pull up my pants. I have recently started both anal and penal masturbation, and I find that coconut oil works wonders for both.
Hi. I have tried all the steps a few times, and the closest thing to orgasm I can get is a weird tingling in my penis. Is there anything I might be doing wrong? Also I'm 14
Have you kept going past the tingling sensation? That may just be buildup.
I'm 11 years old and when i masturbated home alone, i started to feel a warm feeling and i got the wierd, sticky and clear liquid. But i didn't get any semen, when is the right time to try again?
zachariah peters
Try until it comes.
that time i feel relax
I have 13 years and i haven't cum anytime ,is it unstoppable cumming or will come with the time?
I was very worried about dont ejaculating and i look in a lot of web pages , they only show stupid things .
Thanks :)
try it for 10 to 20 minutes daily
Im 12 years old.Is it normal for ejaculation to be white but not really sticky
OneHowTo Editor
Hi there,
There is no need to worry, it's normal at your age, this will soon change.
Hope this helps
Thanks for the advice

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