Attracting a girl

How to Flirt With a Girl

Mary Smith
By Mary Smith. Updated: January 16, 2017
How to Flirt With a Girl

Although there is no fool-proof trick for flirting or a magic wand to catch a girl's attention, there are some tips that you can follow when it comes to the noble art of flirting so that it doesn't become game over before you've even started the game.

OneHowTo will offer a few important tips on how to flirt with a girl and make her notice you successfully. Are you ready to learn?

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Steps to follow:

The first tip we'll give you is to be yourself. You must apply this to life in general, not only in matters of the heart. Don't try to be too flamboyant, making up stories that you don't even believe yourself. Accept yourself as you are, which will make you feel secure to face her without fear or feelings of inferiority when in the situation. You'll be more comfortable and that will also make her feel the same.

However, if you fear that your nerves will get the better of you and you lose confidence in yourself, our article about how to gain confidence and self-esteem will give you the keys to feeling completely comfortable.


Don't make it look like you're out to get some. No one has figured out the mystery, but somehow we always can tell when someone is out to have a good time by not sleeping alone. Nobody likes to feel like an object. Believe us, people who seem out to do their own thing are actually more successful in flirting. Maybe people view them as more interesting, or maybe it's their looking disinterested that makes them very attractive.

So now you know, don't let them get a sniff that you're desperate to be with a girl or they'll all run away.

How to Flirt With a Girl - Step 2

Watch before acting. Check to see if the girl is accompanied by a potential rival, and if there is no enemy in sight... wait anyway! What if you start with a few glances? This is a first step that will give you enough information.

If two exchange looks - and she keeps looking back -, there may be something there. Turn the looks into knowing smiles to see how that goes. Here are some more tips on how to flirt without words. If you look and she shuns your glances, this is probably not your chance.

How to Flirt With a Girl - Step 3

The mouth is for kissing but also for talking. So now you've looked and smiled, it's time to talk. Don't ask questions that can lead to monosyllabic answers, and don't bring out the repertoire of dull and trite questions like "what do you do?" or "do you come here often?"

Bring out the wit that we all have inside of us. If you come across a topic that she likes, carry on with that. Show her you're receptive and nod. Everybody likes being listened to.

How to Flirt With a Girl - Step 4

If you've spent a little time together and conversation has flowed with neither of you seeking an excuse to escape, things are going well. When it is likely there is something there, instinct will tell you. It's time to be brave and perhaps throw in some more personal questions about her by asking if she is single and available. Remember, the fact that a girl is talking with you does not necessarily mean she is interested, you must dig a little deeper!

Don't be nervous, human relationships are not such a mystery. If it all goes smoothly and you are both available, we're sure that you'll have successfully flirted.


And finally, never forget to look after your appearance! If you leave home and you are also hoping to flirt, it's really important that make the most of your appeal. You must have good hygiene, smell nice and watch your breath by eating foods that do not make it smell bad.

How to Flirt With a Girl - Step 6

All these little details will make any woman go crazy, but there are still more tips for success. Now that you know how to flirt with a girl, go out and try it!

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