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The Best Sex Positions for Women who Find it Hard to Orgasm

By Mary Smith. Updated: December 4, 2017
The Best Sex Positions for Women who Find it Hard to Orgasm
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For women, it is not always easy to climax. In heterosexual relationships, when women become more turned on they will notice that their sexual response is different to a man's. Meaning that, on many occasions, their partner can reach the height of pleasure before we do. There are many ways to increase sexual arousal and enhance orgasms. But this time, we are going to talk specifically about sexual positions. Discover at oneHOWTO, the best sex positions for women who find it hard to orgasm.

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It is normal for a woman to not always orgasm

First things first. Ladies, do not be ashamed if you struggle to climax. It is incredibly common for women not to orgasm every time and most women cannot orgasm from penetration alone. Because of this, it is important to consider some aspects of your chosen sex positions.

  • Always opt for positions that do not generate pain or discomfort. Rough sex can be fun but if you begin to hurt, you will be focusing more on the discomfort and not relaxing. Relaxing is the key to achieving orgasm.
  • The positions that produce more friction with the clitoris are always the most recommended because this will arouse you a lot more. The clitoris is so sensitive and integral in the pursuit of the orgasm.
  • Sexual positions which, during penetration, put pressure on the clitoris, or allow the man to stimulate other pleasure points (such as the breast or anus) are also highly recommended.

Now that we've established this, let's move onto the fun part!

Face to face / Missionary

It's not a classic for nothing. Face to face, also known as missionary, is a sexual position that, although may seem boring, offers much pleasure. The man is in control of penetration, but the angle of entry of the penis can stimulate the clitoris enough. There is good friction while the proximity allows full contact. Enjoy passionate kissing and heavy caressing. Also, the man's weight puts a lot of pressure on the clitoris, which is highly arousing to the woman. So this position is an excellent choice if you have trouble reaching orgasm. If you think this isn't adventurous enough, try out different variations. The Anvil may be right up your street...

The Best Sex Positions for Women who Find it Hard to Orgasm - Face to face / Missionary

Spooning for female orgasm

Spooning is the perfect position for when both partners want to get maximum pleasure without becoming physically tired. Ideal for soft sex, this position allows highly pleasurable penetration, producing friction which stimulates the clitoris. And, at the same time keeps the man's hands free to caress her breasts or practice masturbation. Spooning is the perfect solution to morning sex. You can both slowly wake up and not have to make any sudden movements, as the man enters the woman from behind. He can stimulate her erogenous zones and she his. Without a doubt, climax is guaranteed.

The Best Sex Positions for Women who Find it Hard to Orgasm - Spooning for female orgasm

The Screw sex position

Another position which generates good friction while stimulating the clitoris during penetration is the screw. Also referred to as the emperor, during this position, one of the man's hands is free to play with her breasts. The female partner generally lies sideways and holds her head with her arm bent in the elbow, to lift her head up. Her legs are slightly bent at the knees and the man is behind, on his knees, penetrating her.Take into account that, for maximum comfort, the woman must be on the edge of the bed, which should not be too high so that he can penetrate her without having problems kneeling.

The Best Sex Positions for Women who Find it Hard to Orgasm - The Screw sex position

The Chair

Vaginal penetration from behind is one of the classic positions, but the chair is also a position that provides a great deal of pleasure. Here the woman sets the pace and intensity of penetration, while he can devote himself to playing with her clitoris or stimulating her breasts. Taking control of the game is very exciting for many girls, allowing her to go straight to orgasm. There are different variations of the chair, like the lap dance and the crucifixion - the latter not as grim as it sounds.

The Best Sex Positions for Women who Find it Hard to Orgasm - The Chair

The Anvil for deep penetration

If the man's penis is not that big, the Anvil is an intense and exciting option. This position allows the penis to completely penetrate the vagina, but also the position of the female's legs - resting on his shoulders - encourage greater friction and an intense experience. This is considered a more advanced version of missionary. Basically, instead of the woman's legs on the bed, they are on her partner's shoulders and this allows the penis to hit the ever elusive G-spot. Remember, if the male's penis is quite large or the woman has a tight vagina, this position can be uncomfortable for the female. Always use lubricants.

The Best Sex Positions for Women who Find it Hard to Orgasm - The Anvil for deep penetration

Girl on top for female orgasm

The merger is one of those classic girl on top positions but when done well provides a fantastic orgasm. Here the woman sets the pace, but the more straight the woman's back is, the less movement and friction there is. For the man, the key is to slightly lean the legs forward and thrust, controlling the amount of friction. With good inclination, he can kiss his partner and stimulate her breasts with his mouth or hands, which are very exciting ideas for both. For the female, it is better to focus more on rocking your body back and forth, rather than trying to bob up and down. You can also try grinding your pelvis in slow, sensual circular movements. The woman has complete control over the pace, depth of penis, the angle and extent of stimulation. It is a super versatile position, so get creative and explore what feels great.

The Best Sex Positions for Women who Find it Hard to Orgasm - Girl on top for female orgasm

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