How to Stimulate a Woman's Erogenous Zones

By Mary Smith. Updated: August 1, 2017
How to Stimulate a Woman's Erogenous Zones

When it comes to relationships, keeping passions alive is very important. What better technique than maximizing your partner's pleasure by stimulating her erogenous zones. These special points in the human body can intensify sexual encounters and guarantee satisfaction- if handled correctly! Discover how to stimulate a woman's erogenous zones and make your next encounter a full sensory experience.

How to stimulate a woman: stroke her hair

For most women, hair is not only important, it is a weapon of seduction. Show her that you notice it by starting with gentle caresses then kiss and play with her hair. It can be a good way to start sending signals that you want a little privacy.

The head is an important area to bear in mind when stimulating a woman well. Have you ever felt those tingles down your spine after someone has massaged your head? Your scalp is covered with nerves that are very sensitive to the touch. So, gently touching this area can release feel-good hormones like serotonin and oxytocin. Head massages are relaxing as well as sensual. They help reduce tension and nerves and ultimately, get you in the mood.

How to Stimulate a Woman's Erogenous Zones - How to stimulate a woman: stroke her hair

Kiss her face and lips

Lips are covered in nerve endings (100 times more than our fingertips) that make them sensitive to the slightest touch. This exposed area is vital in knowing how to stimulate a woman. Stimulating them, again, releases feel-good hormones to her brain, as well as her genitals.

Women appreciate tenderness. Begin by kissing her entire face delicately, go near her mouth and tease her with damp kisses. You can gently bite her lips too and increase intensity as the desire grows. Remember a good kiss is a great prelude to a course of intense and pleasurable sex.

How to Stimulate a Woman's Erogenous Zones - Kiss her face and lips

The ears, neck and shoulders

We all know the power and stimulation that is produced by a sensual approach to the ear, a gentle kiss and an erotic lick on the neck. The latter is an incredibly sensitive area so it doesn't take a lot of physical effort to make your partner feel good.

But you probably didn't know that a woman's shoulders are a highly important erogenous zone. So, do not forget to stimulate these during your next encounter and you will certainly notice a difference.

Start by lightly tracing your partner’s ear with your fingertips or tongue. Then gently kiss her earlobe and massage it with your lips. Once she seems to be enjoying the sensations, then you can kick it up a notch and begin kissing and nibbling her ears.

It is important to know that it is not just touching that can stimulate a woman. Utilize your voice! Whisper sweet (or not so sweet) nothings into her ear as you caress the area, this will undoubtedly help you heat her up. You are welcome.

How to Stimulate a Woman's Erogenous Zones - The ears, neck and shoulders

How to stimulate a woman: play with her limbs

The inside of the arms and especially the opposite side of the elbow are important stimulation points on the female body. Kiss them, fill them with caresses and use your tongue to play with her hands, showing that you can later lick other things. Remember that in the game of seduction, exploration is key.

Then, you can get low. Move to her inner thighs and then progress to her feet. The inner thighs are a very sensitive area to touch. Therefore, don't be too aggressive. Light strokes and licks will be enough to drive her wild. As for her feet, you don't have to possess a fetish to explore this body part. There are pressure points on feet that can trigger sexual arousal, or at least de-stress someone. Which, of course, aids in the arousal process. Get your partner in the mood by treating her to a sensual foot massage. It is likely it won't just end there...

Her breasts: the male favorite

It is no secret that breasts are one of the main erogenous zones, but what can be a mystery is how to stimulate a woman's breasts correctly. All breasts have the same number of nerve endings, regardless of size, which is why small breasts are often more sensitive. If your partner does not have a large size take advantage of this by stimulating her a lot in this area. Play gently with her nipples, use your mouth and your hands and do not forget to stimulate the lower crease of the breast, this will give great pleasure. It is also important to try to understand how she likes to be kissed and caressed, if very delicately or a little stronger with soft nibbling included. The key is experimentation and to build up pace and pressure.

How to Stimulate a Woman's Erogenous Zones - Her breasts: the male favorite

Massage her back and kiss her crotch

The back is filled with sensitive muscles and nerves, so whenever you are in seduction mode, massage and kiss her back. Start off gently, as always, and focus on the area of her lower back just above the tailbone. This is full of nerve endings! Then move onto the are above her bum - utilize some body oil if you are feeling adventurous!

And, of course, there is clearly no better prelude to sex than kissing and gently licking the crotch. It increases the expectation of things to come, so next time don't forget to pass through this zone.

The clitoris, erogenous zone par excellence

Everyone knows that the clitoris is an important point of female arousal, and direct stimulation is the easiest way to make a woman reach orgasm. It is a part of the human body solely dedicated to providing pleasure and possesses a whopping 8000 nerve endings. But as it is an extremely sensitive area you should encourage it delicately. To women, the clitoris is what your penis is to you and if not treated with care it can really ruin the moment. The tongue and the tip of the penis are great allies to stimulate the clitoris and bring your female to the summit of pleasure.

It is vital to experiment with different speeds and pressure to see what works best for your partner - every clitoris is different. Likewise, some women will like finger stimulation when others will prefer strokes from your tongue.

Don't forget the perineum for guaranteed pleasure

Located between the anus and the vagina, the perineum is one of the most powerful erogenous zones of the female body. It is rarely explored so perhaps your partner has never been stroked in this area before. You will want to be the first! If both of you are willing to explore something new then dedicate some time to caress and kiss this point. Watch how you boost her excitement through provoking intense sensations.

Now you know about all the erogenous zones, you might also want to go a step further and learn some great ideas for foreplay to make your experience more exciting.

Now you know about all the erogenous zones, you might also want to go a step further and learn some great ideas for foreplay to make your experience more exciting.

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  • Pass slowly through each point of stimulation, extending foreplay to fill her with pleasure

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