How to Seduce a Man with Words

By Mary Smith. Updated: August 17, 2017
How to Seduce a Man with Words

We often hear that men are more visual than women, implying that the best way to a man's heart is through your body rather than a meaningful conversation. However, this is a gross generalization, and we think that any man worth falling in love with will love you for your mind first. Sapiosexual women are sexy! Perhaps you and your man are apart, and the only way to spark his desire is through the phone or by instant message, In this oneHOWTO article, we'll give you fool proof tips on seducing your man using your words.

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To seduce a man with words, there aren't any magic phrases to get him to instantly fall in love, but we can always try being suggestive and playful with them. Telling them outright is not always the best option, but some simple flirting in which we comment how much we like men like them, how passionate you are in the sexual arena or how much fun you are at certain erotic games, will make him want nothing more than to see more of you. If you're not very good with words, here are 8 tips to flirt with someone.

How to Seduce a Man with Words - Flirting

Compliment him

Although we think that men do not like being told how handsome they are, this is actually not true. Everyone likes compliments but the difference is that the compliments we give a man should sound less gushy and more disinterested, as if we weren't actually complimenting them. Saying things like "is that a new jumper?", "that color suits you", or maybe even "you work out, right? I can tell".

Be interested in his life

Take an interest in him and what he does. Listen to him attentively and try to repeat certain words he uses during this conversation so that you show you are attentive to his life and work. Seducing a man with words does not always mean flirting. We can seduce him by asking about that important project he's been working on, show some interest in his life. We all like it when someone listens to us.

Play with words

It is true that praise and saying nice things can work well when you are seducing a man with words. It is also true that in many cases, challenges can be very appealing to them. If you've tried everything, you can try adopting a more distant position and use your words to challenge him but remember that not all men react in the same way to this.

Question everything they say by taking on a completely different point of view on the matter. Don't become aggressive, that might make you look threatening rather than curious. You will notice that this tactic becomes more of a subtle game of words.

Women who are a bit aloof and mysterious have some type of attractiveness for men. It's not about sounding crazy, but use cliffhangers in your conversation, tell him a story and say you'll tell him the end at another time or say you'll let him know about a certain aspect of your life he may be interested in once he's known you better. This will fuel his curiosity and make him want to know more and more about you.

How to Seduce a Man with Words - Play with words

Be direct

The last resort to seduce a man with words is to say something more direct like "tonight I want you to do whatever you want with me". It seems simple, but can often make the other person feel empowered, but it should only be taken to mean in the bedroom.

If you're not sure if he's fallen for you, we recommend reading our article how to know if he's in love with you or 7 signs to tell that a guy likes you.

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Kate Figes
A great review. Truly impressed. However, there is another method as well. This includes understanding a man's psyche and then using words to seduce him effectively.
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