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The Best Sexual Fantasies to Spice up your Sex Life

By Mary Smith. Updated: May 1, 2019
The Best Sexual Fantasies to Spice up your Sex Life

If you have a partner, why not spice up your sex life by acting out a fun and sensual erotic fantasy? It´s a sad truth that oftentimes sex with the same partner can become quite monotonous, but it doesn't have to be so! There are a wide range of ways to spice things up a little, from erotic games to role playing. Have some fun together and find out which fantasies you can try with your partner that are sure to please both you and your partner at oneHOWTO. Don't miss out!

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The secret of the trench coat

If you want to make your partner's jaw drop, try coming home one day wearing a trench coat down to the knees...and nothing else. The idea is to appear at home, as if nothing's going on, and then take off the coat as you talk to him or her, the dirtier the better. He'll be speechless!

If you don't want to go completely naked, you can choose to wear a set of sexy lingerie that fits you properly and flatters your assets.

Banish the bed

There are plenty of places around the house to have sex without always going to bed. Be creative and find original new places to unleash your passion. The bath or shower, for example, is an exciting place to have sex; there's also the kitchen counter, the balcony, on top of the washing machine or even the floor. Making love in unusual and different places is a great way to shake things up. Why not give it a go?

OneHowto can give you some ideas on the best positions to have sex in the shower.

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She's in charge

A common sexual fantasy for men is being subjected to the domination of a woman. This domination can be gentle or it may develop into sexual play in which she takes on the role of a dominatrix. To put it simply, this is about the woman having control in bed: setting the pace, suggesting sexual positions, giving orders to her partner or even handcuffing him so he can't move.

If you prefer sexual fantasies that involve bondage, the women could try becoming a dominatrix. This involves dressing up in clothes that convey her sexual persona and using sex toys like whips, handcuffs or crops. For a more toned-down version, women, remove his tie after a long day's work and use it to blindfold him or tie him to the bed.

You can learn more about sadomasochism at OneHowto too.

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The mirror

Another of the fantasies that you can do with your partner is using a mirror. This is a simple but very exciting fantasy that may well unleash your wildest side of all. Place a mirror next to the bed or wherever you go to have sex, and then make love whilst looking at your reflections. The result is spectacular: you'll see how your inhibitions will fly away, leaving you both to enjoy truly passionate and exciting sex.

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Roleplay

This is one of the most common sexual fantasies for both men and women. Roleplay involves taking on a completely different character and pretending that you and your partner have never met. This game can be played with traditional erotic fancy dress (schoolgirl, firefighter, cowboy, nurse, etc.) or simply by meeting your partner in a hotel bar and pretending not to know each other. If you want to surprise your partner, you can greet them at the door wearing a sexy costume and begin playing out the fantasy. He´s sure to catch on quickly!

The key to this erotic game is to fulfil a sexual fantasy that involves making love with strangers or with specific characters (policeman, teacher, nurse, etc.). For the game to therefore be successful you must both be completely submerged in the role and ready to play it through to the end: it's best to invent a name, a profession and a completely different life to the one that you have. It´s also best to talk about it before hand.

Having sex in public places

The excitement and adrenaline that comes from the risk of being discovered is extremely arousing when having sex. The danger, adventure and excitement make for truly wild sex. If you want to know what fantasies to play out with your partner, we say: be as daring as you can and surprise your partner with a burst of passion in a public place!

The most exciting places to have sex outside the home include the changing rooms of a department store, a public bath, a park, a beach or a car. You just need to make sure you have the skills to hide from voyeurs and learn about the best positions to do it in public spaces so you don't get hurt and are both perfectly comfortable.

Whereas the aforementioned is known as some form of exhibitionism, you can go one step further and actually get others involved, certain people enjoy watching their partner have sexual relationships with others, or have the third party watch.

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Starring in an erotic video

Another fantasy that you can try with your partner is to star in an erotic film. Start by dressing in sexy clothes, and create a sensual atmosphere in the room with scented candles, petals and any props you might use in your sex play. Then, switch the camera on and start recording! This fantasy allows you to become the protagonists of an erotic film that will only ever be seen by you. It's exciting!

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Sexting

You can begin foreplay before your partner even gets home! Send them sexy text messages throughout the day, leaving them filled with desire for you. Send a sexy picture through Whatsapp or Telegram(for further privacy)There are sure to be fireworks when you two see each other at the end of the day!

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